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Palak Verma
2020-08-22 10:06:55
"That's okay."
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It all went wrong since we started looking for love and believing that it's the right thing to do. You cannot find love because love isn't waiting for you at the corner down the coffee shop. Love is living it's life with other people. You don't even know love yet and see what you've done to yourself. You're searching for love in every other person you meet. You've stopped living. Having someone to hold your hand is a part of life but it isn't your life. And let me tell you the truth, you may never find love at all. You may never fall in love. And even though none of the quotes on instagram tells you that, but it's okay to never find love. Love can make you happy but that doesn't mean all the time you're gonna be with the love of your life you'll be happy. There will be sad moments, there will be normal moments and then there will be other moments. Most of all there will be moments where you might not feel love as you believed love to be all magical and stuff. Love would get sick. Love would look ugly. Love wouldn't remain the same for the rest of your life. Love would change over and over. So how do people who stay together for so long still love each other? How do they grow old with each other and still have love for each other? Well, here's their secret... They fall in love everyday. They choose to love that one person everyday. You see, love is a choice. It's a commitment. You know everything about someone and you choose to love them. Not just for the sake of proving the honesty of your love. But genuinely loving someone. Real love doesn't feel like obsession, jealousy and excitement all the time. It's not materialistic. Real love is a choice. Even when things go wrong you choose to stay. You don't just fall in love with someone and remain fallen for the rest of your life. Sometimes we get up or the other person gets up. That doesn't mean you haven't loved them, you did. But just not anymore. That love wasn't by choice it was just by fate. And you know what, sometimes in life we choose to love someone and we stay with them but they don't choose to love us back and that's okay. It's okay to never find love in your life. It's okay to find it and then lose it. What's not okay is to get sad and stop living your life. What's not okay is to go out in search for love. If it comes to you welcome it, if it goes away bid it a farewell and thank it for the little journey you both had together. And I will not talk about self love because self love is prioritized so much that now everybody loves themselves, and is finding love for themselves. What's the need to have anyone anyway? There are dogs in this world. We don't really need people. I don't think I could love someone so much that I would want to be with them for the rest of my life. There's so much to life than finding true love. If I only take away the question of finding true love from my life it all becomes so beautiful and less of a burden and I'm able to see life from a different perspective. I have different respect for life. But it's all just in my opinion, you may have yours. What I overall meant to say is that true love is beautiful but it's not everything. And if you have it feel blessed. Not all of us has a princess or a prince to save the day. We have to be our own heroes. Not all of us have love stories. And you not what? Even if nobody says it out loud, "That's okay."
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Palak Verma
yup, thanks!☺️
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