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Dr. B
2020-09-08 08:19:31
CONFUSE THEM WITH YOUR SILENCE
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CONFUSE THEM WITH YOUR SILENCE. It seems most times the problems we have with ourselves as humans is the problem of saying what is not yet ready to be put forth. We all seem to have this problem and most times there are countless reasons why we do this to make people know that we are somebody who also has his own worth. We try to make ourselves look big,try to talk others down and sometimes gain some respect aggressively, some God like reverence to ourselves. We are ready to say everything that can be said to have a stand on a position that is of worth and make people see us as important too. And in the process we say more than we actually should. Have you ever thought of the importance of silence? Have you ever thought of the reason why you have been given two lips and a brain to think? The main reason is for you to know by reasoning the right time to talk and the right time not to. To be able to envisage when our words are needed to be heard and when we are to be silent even when the situation and circumstances around us seemingly want us to speak out. Yes, life can be a bit complicated and demanding. It can throw you off balance and give you no reason to be logical. However, since you have no control over many situations, you do have control over your own life. Look at yourself more than you look and meditate on others. Saying too much is providing an arsenal for you to get hurt with your words. Being mysterious, on the other hand, makes people go the extra mile to be your friend. You don't wan5vto give them any ammunition to attack. Be still in your conversations and thoughts and keep the people around you guessing. Keep them wondering and looking over their shoulder for you. They will yell at you, do nothing, you say nothing. They will come calling on you when you don not want, stay calm, say nothing. You aren't doing them a favour. You are doing yourself a favour. Hearing nothing from you will give them much to think about when they want to approach you. You become "that guy" or "that girl", that makes them feel unsure of themselves. Your silence disrupts their confidence. It breaks their flow of thought regarding you. They just don't know how to get to you anymore. You don't give them any means or a reason to. It is like a man who goes to a party with friends and doesn't dance. No one is going to laugh at his dance moves, why? Because he has not danced. They will keep coming up with ways to define you just because you never provide them any. Instead of you trying to give reasons as to why you are better and why they are wrong, why not just keep quiet and steadily work towards your dreams? Bearing in mind that you have a goal better than the circumstances around you. We have heard of the expression: "Silence is the best response to a fool". The people around you do not necessarily need to proven as fools because the whole essence at going down your particular path is for your own sake. Why don't you keep them confused by your silence? Keep them entirely thinking about you while you stay focused on your goals. Nobody is you and that is what makes the difference. The moment you start bearing in mind nobody knows anything about youbis the moment you will begin to understand that talking to convince people about who you are doesn't really work. You don't need to tell them who you are. Let them find out. Don't give them exactly what they need to say about you. Let them play the guessing game. You don't necessarily need to respond to anything they say. If they intend to draw out some negative reaction from you, just leave them in silence and let your actions do the talking. Smile on and confuse them with your choice of saying nothing. All you are required to do is listen and let them seek your voice. Let them find it hard to figure you out. What is more fun than giving people virtually nothing revealing about you while you live your life to the fullest?
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Anjali_ R
Your words are really very insightful. They made me ponder over keeping silence. And yeah, fully agree, some people really don't deserve our words and time. It's better to ignore them.
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2020-09-08 14:21:38
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Dr. B
@Anjali_ R Thank you for your generous words.
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2020-09-08 17:54:22
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